Are you feeling festive this Detty December? Then you’re probably ready to join the chaos at festivals, parties, raves, and street takeovers happening across Lagos.
If you’re a veteran, you already know the unspoken rules. But a reminder never hurts, especially when December crowds bring out the best and worst in people.
If you’re a newbie trying to survive your first Detty December without embarrassing yourself, welcome. This guide will help you avoid stepping on toes (literal and metaphorical) and committing the kind of public faux pas that’ll haunt you well into the new year.
Here are the dos and don’ts to keep your December smooth, safe, and legendary.
Dos
Have cash on you
Banks and network providers can disappoint you. Some vendors are cash-only, and emergencies happen. You don’t want to be strapped for cash this festive period. Don’t carry bundles, just enough to bail yourself out of a potentially sticky situation.
Plan transport
How are you getting to the function? How are you getting back? For those in Lagos, traffic can be a nightmare and it gets ten times worse during this season. Leave early to avoid turning your journey into a saga.
Dress for the vibe
What’s the function? A beach party, a rave, or a casual hangout with friends? Dress to fit the vibe so you don’t stick out like a sore thumb. If you want to dress outside the vibe, that’s fine too, as long as you’re comfortable.
Wear deodorant
With all the moving around and dancing, you don’t want to be the person with stinky pits. Imagine dancing in a crowded club, lifting your arms, and people visibly recoiling from the stench. The horror!
Hydrate
Water is your friend. Lagos heat (because harmattan seems to be making a very late appearance this year) plus party plus alcohol, if you partake, equals dehydration. Lord forbid you flop onto the floor in the middle of having a good time. And then end up as a viral video or meme.
Keep your phone charged
You see your phone? It’s very important that you keep it charged. Carry a power bank with you, because you might not be able to charge where you’re going, and even if you could, there’s the fear of it being stolen. How else will you book rides, stay in contact with people, capture memories, and update your followers on social media?
Look out for your crew
Party with people you trust. Everyone says how dangerous December is, and with good reason. Be safe and avoid leaving your group to hang out with people you don’t know. You do not want to become a statistic.
Bring good energy
Positive vibes only. We all have our worries, but going out is an opportunity to leave them at the door. Once you step out, focus on having a good time. Negativity kills the mood and you don’t want to ruin your fun.
Pace yourself
As Ice Cube said in his song Check Yo Self in 1992, “You better check yo’ self before you wreck yo’ self.” Basically, don’t start the night like you’re already at the finish line. The night is still young, and you have time. Don’t overeat, drink too much, or do anything in excess too early.
Know your limits
With everyone having a good time, you might feel pressured to match their energy. There’s nothing wrong with stepping out of your comfort zone, but everyone has limits. Stick with yours—whether it’s food, alcohol, spending, or late nights–so you don’t end up in an uncomfortable situation.
Don’ts
Don’t pressure people
Some people are party machines, and some aren’t. If you’re the former, you might feel compelled to hype people up. There’s nothing wrong with that, but know when to back off. Don’t pressure anyone to drink more, party harder, or go somewhere they don’t want to.
Don’t fight over small things
It’s easy to get into fights during this period. Spirits are high, which sometimes makes people more prone to arguments. It’s not worth it—queue fights, line fights, fist fights, none of it. In fact, don’t fight at all, unless it’s absolutely necessary, like defending yourself or someone else from harm.
Don’t disrespect the security or staff
Do not do it. They have a job to do and they deserve respect like everyone else. They also control entry, space, and safety.
Don’t block the way
You aren’t the only one in the room or space. Be mindful of people moving around. You know how annoying it is when people block the way, so don’t be that person.
Don’t leave your stuff unattended
We shouldn’t have to tell you, but we’re saying it anyway. Bags, devices, etc. should not be left unattended. December is peak “lost-and-found” season.
Don’t overdo selfies or videos
As tempting as it is to whip out your phone to take aesthetic pictures and videos to tension people on social media, remember that you’re also there to have a good time. Enjoy the moment. Does anyone really need that many snaps?
Don’t leave your friends stranded
Don’t ghost your friends after making plans, and don’t leave them stranded either. If you’re their ride to or from the event, stick to it. You should be there for each other and look out for one another. You’d want them to do the same for you.
Don’t kill the vibe with negativity
Arguments, complaining, and hating, leave them outside. Negativity is a downer and is definitely not welcome at the party.
Don’t try to impress too hard
No go do pass yourself. Yes, this is the perfect time to flaunt and flex, but you know what’s better than that? Enjoying the music, the food, the vibe, and the moment.
Don’t ignore your safety
Watch your things, trust your instincts, and pay attention to your surroundings. A good night out is not worth putting yourself in danger.
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